In this conversation we learn from Ariana Kukors, who is a USA Olympic Swimmer, current American Record holder and former World Record holder in the 200-meter individual medley (long course).

A 2-Time World Champion, Kukors has won a total of seven medals in major international competition- two golds, three silvers, and two bronze spanning a 10-year national team career. After barely missing the 2008 Olympic Team, she set out to explore a deep understanding of her mind and craft. The result was a 2009 World Title and a berth on the 2012 Olympic Team.

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If you’re wanting to better understand the nuances of a psychological framework that supports growth in the face of failure, you’ll enjoy where this conversation goes.

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Deep training // courage // failure // risk taking // mindset skills // breaking // resiliency // parenting // world leading performer.

Following her retirement in 2012, she set out to apply those same frameworks in her post-athletic career.


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“When it came down to making the Olympic team, it was being calm that saved me.”Click-To-Tweet


In This Episode:

  • Having everything you could want in a childhood and being active
  • How her upbringing made her an Olympian
  • Impact of having a serious competitor when growing up
  • Person that shaped her life toward mastery
  • The dark side to sport and mastery
  • Starting out at the Olympic trials
  • Dealing with the pain of blowing the last lap at the Olympic trials
  • How her dad supported her during the loss at Olympic trials
  • Showing up at the world championships with a quiet confidence
  • The moment that defined her gold medal-winning race at the world championships
  • Valuable habits that got her to where she was
  • How to deal with her inner critic
  • Her most important mental skill
  • Defining success
  • Defining mastery



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Ariana Kukors is an American former competition swimmer and former world record holder in the 200-meter individual medley.